• lennivelkant@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 days ago

    Finding the silver linings, the rays of light, the diamonds in the mud is a skill to learn, and I think learning it is worthwhile. That doesn’t mean I close my eyes to the bad stuff, but spotting the good stuff definitely makes it all more bearable.

    • Zink@programming.dev
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      1 day ago

      Very well put!

      So many people would agree that the idea behind “stop and smell the roses” is a good and healthy one. And so few people would actually do it in real life.

      I would even expand what you said to include things like living intentionally and experiencing the moment are part of that general skill of finding fulfillment in a world that will never be unbroken.